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Unsure of my feelings towards marriage, Need advice?

admin — Sun, 26 Sep 2010 13:06:00 +0000

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Where do I start..hmmm..Well, Me and my hubby of 4 years met online and had a whirlwind romance. He was deployed to Iraq when we met online then 3 months later, we met on his R&R in texas. I fell in like when I met him and he said he did too. 6 months later after getting back from deployment we got married after transfering from the army base in germany and going to an Army base in NY.

To me, I thought we had a pleased life. Couldnt question for a better husband. He gave me everything after we got married. Had a fantastic sex life, fantastic friends…everything seem fantastic. After just being together for 6 months, we were married already. I really thought we connected coz we didnt have problems when we were together til he got deployed in feb ’06 to afghanistan. It was hard but I remained strong because I loved him so much and would wait for him no matter what.

I wasnt working for the first part of this deployment so I was there anytime he needed to talk or whenever he was free. Things seem fantastic even with deployment til i went back to work since i got so bored at home. After his R&R, he had a small fuse with me. We argued more and I just felt his cold shoulder towards me but didnt reckon of it since its hard being deployed. I remained strong, faithful and hopeful about our relationship.

so finally in feb 07, he came home! it was incredible seeing him again. we continued everything like nothing ever happened til that faithful night…..I just got home from work and we were gonna go out and go to the movies. when I came home he seem distant but didnt reckon of it..so I told him to go get ready and he did. so i went and check my email on my computer. his laptop was beside mine and something was telling me to look at it….so I opened it and there I found an open yahoo messenger and it had 1 screen name and it was the girl that i knew that liked him. I wasnt panicking til I read all his message archive and found out he cheated on me with this girl when we were engaged and then an online affair with the same girl during the end part of the deployment. It was all explicit and hurtful….I felt like my world fell apart! I confronted him and he didnt deny it. I just bawled my eyes off and packed my bags. I was about to leave and he stopped me from leaving. He said that he really likes me and he didnt want me to leave. He said he finished it with her before he came home….He told me everything that happened, details and all….He has been trying hard to win me back. he has done a lot of stuff and sacrifices to make this relationship work. He wants us to grow ancient together…He has been frightened that i am gonna leave him so when he found out I was pregnant he was so pleased and he thinks that with the baby its gonna make us stronger. I really was not sure about the pregnancy that I wanted to stay but he has been a excellent husband and father to my son.

Now, he is supposed to come home from iraq soon and i dont know how I feel about everything in our relationship. This relationship have been really hard…there were moments that we were gonna break but we tried to talk it out. Its like I cant forgive him and I am so insecure about myself pluse I am still so mad and bitter. to make things worse….I started talking to a excellent friend online again after long absence, we are in the same situation but he didnt cheat..his wife left him for partying and guys….so we’ve been supporting each other then all this led to an online relationship….didnt know he always had a thing for me back when…he is a fantastic guy!! my husband always gets jealous when we talk and accused me of cheating….we never did anything til now when we told each other we had feelings for each other….but I broke it off straight away coz first, I am still marriedd and we are still trying to work things out…..

my question is I feel empty inside…its like the like for my husband is not the same, I dunno if it can be where like it was when he was my world but now, I am not sure what to reckon. I am just frightened that my son wont get enough emotionally and financially if I choose to separate. i like him but I am not sure if I am still in like with him…..I dunno what to do?? maybe since he is deployed and far away, its really getting to me and plus I constantly reckon of the other guy coz I just got it off with no reason and quit talking to him…So do u reckon me and my husband can survive this?
I confessed to him about the other guy and he said he had a gut feeling about me and my excellent guy friend and he realy feels threaten by him. He forbade me not to talk to him ever again. he has been so sweet to me and been trying really hard to make me pleased and get to trust him again but there’s always the thought in my head that its gonna happen again and I get so mad….I also still reckon of the other guy,,what could have been if he would have told me about his feelings before my husband came in the picture..this is all a huge mess

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THE TEN COMMANDMENTS OF ISLaM?

admin — Sun, 26 Sep 2010 03:08:12 +0000

1 Thou shalt behead apostates, pagans and violators of blasphemy laws, it is halal for you.

2.Thou shalt extort money from Christians and Jews, the future hell dwellers, and if they refuse, kill them. But do not hurt their women and children, it is haram for you. But thou shalt enslave them, rape them or sell them for profit, it is halal for you.

3. Thou art guaranteed paradise and 72 huge bosomed houris (and/or charming young boys), along with other fringes, if you cough up huge bucks and take a trip to Mecca. Poverty stricken chaps and losers among you who cannot afford the trip, can earn the same privileges and more by participating in Jihad and killing the infidels. The jihadis will get the additional bonus of sharing the booty and gorgeous women from the captured infidel lands.

4. Thou shalt marry a maximum of four wives at a time, except for my messenger whom I have exempted from this limit since his needs are equal to the needs of 30 horny men. But Thou art allowed to change your wives at will for variety and maintenance of your harem quality by divorcing them and acquiring younger specimens. Ancient bags lose their charm and excitement and must be replenished with a fresh supply. Try to buy younger and better looking ones preferably virgins, leave the older ones and ugliest for the losers and ancient fogies.

5. Thou art allowed to have unlimited number of slaves and captive women and have sex with them, it is halal for you. Gay guys among you will have to wait for their fun, we will provide them with charming young boys in paradise. Alcohol lovers, hold your horses until you make it to the paradise, there will be rivers flowing with wine, up there.

6. For those amongst you who have pedophilic tendencies, we have made underage children halal for marriage and your carnal pleasure. But let them keep and play with their dolls while you are at it so that their attention is diverted from their pain and shock. Thou art also allowed to marry your daughter in law in case you keep getting excited by her voluptuous body every time you happen to see her in skimpy clothes.

7 Thou can demand sex from your women any time and anywhere, even on a camel’s back. Thou shalt keep a lash or a green stick handy in case they refuse and need a excellent beating. But while doing it on a camels back with your wife, make sure that the hijab is maintained by keeping all yours and her body parts covered with the burka during the action. In case of doing it with your slave girl on a camel’s back hijab requirement is exempted, you are allowed to delight in the sunshine and the fresh air along with her curves.

8. Thou shalt not listen to music, watch t.v. or go to the movies, these activities are haram for you. But thou shalt take your family to watch beheadings of apostates and kafirs, cutting of hands and feet of petty thieves, and stoning of adulterers, their viewing is halal for you.

9.Thou shalt not indulge in haram professions like selling non halal meat, food items with lard in it, or confectionary even with 1% liquor in it or working in interest charging banks and mortgage companies etc. Thou shalt only indulge in clean and halal means of earning livelihood like slave trading, looting infidel caravans and communities, killing Jews and acquiring their goods and properties, extortion of jizya and kharaj from captured lands, and booty earning bloody Jihads.

10. Ramadan Rules. Thou art not allowed the pleasure of eating or drinking during the quick (except for wives who have to taste food lest their husbands beat them up for cooking foul tasting food) but thou art allowed to kiss your wives, slaves (only female) and the women your right hand posses, to wait out the rough afternoon hungry period. Thou art not allowed to eat pigs but thou art allowed to pig out after breaking the quick. Thou art not allowed to have conjugal relationship during the quick but art allowed to break a quick with sex instead of food. Husbands are allowed to prohibit wives from fasting to keep the ladies fresh and gorgeous for a romantic evening after a hard day of fasting.

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Does he like me……..?

admin — Sat, 25 Sep 2010 17:08:04 +0000

Okay here’s the tale.
I met this boy in Language Arts class in 7th grade(we’re now 8th grade) and he sat in front of me,and he started to always question when I was going to be on yahoo/hotmail every day,gave me notes,looked at me all the time.
We just started hanging out and eventually even went on a “date” I guess.
Now that we are in 8th grade,he got mad at me because I told him to stop making fun of this girl and I don’t like how he makes fun of people so I told him we aren’t friends anymore.
We stopped talking to each other for about a month,and just yesterday I chose to make up with him,I waved at him(He’s in my Science class and now In my math) we’re close to each other(only like 2 desks away) and sent notes.

I told him I was sorry and I wanted to make up with him.
We sent each other notes a few times,I told him what happened that people have said I’m so hideous I should place a bag over my face.And questioned him if he thought I was hideous.

He said “No you are so not Hideous!And I do care what they say!”

He’s also said he had some feelings for me in the past on Yahoo messenger.

When the bell rang to our 4th period next I told him to give me a hug(not with both arms just one arm) and he said “huh???” and he said “Ohhh” and did the same,we chat together and laughed.

We went to our classes but in a note I questioned “Do you still like me?”

And he said “I dunno ”

He said that because I stopped talking to him and he was really really sad.

Today he gave me a hug again and was really close by me.
But he’s giving mixed signals because my best friend was close so I went over there and he gave her a HUGE hug.
But after that we(me the boy,and my 2 best friends) hung out and talked.

Do you reckon he may still like me?
He questioned for my email again because my other email got suspended.

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Guy hitting on my girlfriend wants to fight me?

admin — Sat, 25 Sep 2010 07:19:21 +0000

(first off me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years) and well, long tale “small”: some d-bag was comforting my girlfriend when we got into a tiny small argument one day (i know this because my girlfriend left her facebook on my computer and her convo with this kid was still saved on the instant messenger from the night before) and she was telling him how she didnt know if she wanted to be in a relationship anymore and they were BOTH talking shiit about me, especially this kid who ive never met in my life. Then he starts telling her how special she is and how uniquely gorgeous she was and how he “wants to hangout again” and she just ate it up. then they chose to text about it so thats all i know about this convo. but that’s enough to get anyone riled up…so i sent this small pr1ck a message on FB (lame, i know) but my only form of contact. saying that if he talks to my girlfriend again i was gonna kill him (edited version) and that he shouldnt be hitting on my girlfriend when hes fully aware shes dating me and talking smack about me behind my back. now he’s threatening me and cursing me out and all this jibberish that i dont want to deal with. all i wanted to do was make this kid aware that i knew he was being a d0uche and ruining things between me and my girl. I dont care if i have to fight him, but whats the point? my girlfriend could very well be cheating on me so ide be taking it out on the incorrect person. She has NO thought i know about this chat sesh, but ive questioned her to keep our small fight on the DL since its just between me and her & she claimes she hasnt told anyone when clearly she’s just lieing to my face…she has a terrible history with cheating (6 times on her last BF) and as muuch as she claims shes changed i simply just cant believe it. its soo hard when she’s talking to a new guy every month and i have to play macho man as soon as i find out theyre hitting on her. i dont know what to do at all. my brain hurts now. feel free to comment with your thoughts. thanks.

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Girlfriend trouble! i need advice asap?

admin — Fri, 24 Sep 2010 21:06:31 +0000

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Dealing with friend’s random moodswings?

admin — Fri, 24 Sep 2010 11:21:42 +0000

Hi im a girl and this friend im talking about is a girl too. She’s well…her attitude is kinda….well just not that excellent but she cn nice too. Anyway, she’s having random moodswings all the time and its really pissing me off. I questioned her whats worrying her? she just says its about a guy. And then giving me attitude in messenger chats but the next minute, she says she’s ok already and showing me smileys blablabla and just today, she got her moodswings again, and now says its me and my friend’s fault. I tot we left her out but she says its not because of that. She keep saying we dont know how she feel. She didnt show it, and didnt talk to us about it, how are we suppose to feel it? We re not her. And when i questioned her to tell us so we can fix this problem up tgt,she just says” does it make a difference if i tell you?” Its really getting on my nerves. And then she says she dont really mean what she say. Wow so she’s like using me as a punching bag for her to pour out all her rants on me? Its super unfair and making me pissed……

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Americans – How is your relationship to smoking and drinking?

admin — Fri, 24 Sep 2010 01:17:34 +0000

Yea well… Here is the tale (Note – i am 16);

Last night i was going out with a few friends from my class, and we were going to a club ‘n stuff. I was supposed to meet them about 21.00 outside the club, but i was an hour early and chose i would get something to eat. I go to the nearest 7/11 and line up. The girl in front of me walks up to the counter, and i realise that she is American (i’m Danish), and she is pretty confused about our currency and doesnt really know what amount to pay and stuff – And i offer my help (yes, i’m a gentleman ^^).

We start talking afterwards (her parents were at a bar a few streets away, talking with some of their Danish friends). I question her if she want to join in on the fun, and go with me and my friends to the club, and she agrees! Looking pretty excellent so far. It’s about 20.30 now, i find out she is 16 like me.

15 minutes later we are outside the club, and decides to wait there. I open my bag and grap 2 beers – and she became totaly shocked. I was kinda confused and told her that we werent doing anything illegal since we both were 16 and all… But i could feel she wasnt very comfortable with the situation so i place them back into my bag. This was something new for me, since in Denmark you start drinking at 13-14 and all, but i accepted it of course.

I start telling her about how our drinking culture is in Denmark and she clarifies that in the US you are allowed to drink when you are… 21 (what the hell?). And now i make the second terrible go; Yes, i pull out a smoke, and her jaw just dropped. She couldnt believe that i was smoking at this age, and she told her that would never be accepted in the US and so on.

We had a fantastic evening after that, and i chose i would not drink until she had went home (didnt want her to feel uncomfortable), i got her messenger and everything is fine. But when i went home i couldnt help but wonder… Dont you guys live some really really sheltered and dull lives until you are 18/21?

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Do you think he had feelings for her?

admin — Thu, 23 Sep 2010 15:23:07 +0000

In June of 2010 I found out my husband was having an emotional affair with a girl, and I say girl very meaningful because she is only 20 years ancient and lives in CA w/her mom and dad. My husband chose to still speak to her when I found out about her and wanted him to stop and he wouldn’t, he kept saying “nothing is going on, it’s just a game”, Still I didn’t reckon him hurting me was a “GAME”. Well, after several times of him leaving and staying the night in his truck and continuing to talk to her he chose he wasn’t gonna “communicate” w/ her anymore and chose he was gonna change his cell phone number and change his Yahoo e-mail (IM messenger) well, when all that was said and done, he was home again…and on the 23th of June I found out he was still communicating w/ her, I found out by snooping. I found a cellular store phone receipt in the back of his truck in a bag and I confronted him on it and he says he threw the phone away a long time ago, and he called the cell phone company (in front of me and I checked online) and had that number disconnected and got another new e-mail address!! I feel so betrayed, hurt! He gets mad at me whenever I bring “her” up, I just wanna know what they chatted about,,,I know he’s lied to her about ALOT of stuff like the kinda work he does, where he lives and I did speak to her and he had told her I was his crazy ex. I feel our bond was broken. I don’t reckon I can never forgive him for what he has done. There is a lot more to this tale…I guess I am just so mad that he chose her over me when I said If you like me then you will call her right now and tell her you wanna work on your marriage and he wouldn’t! When I called her in front of him I was leaving her a message that if she didn’t believe that he was married to call his mother and here’s the number well, right when I was giving her the number he jumped out of the chair real quick and punched my arm and slapped my face! Called me a F***ING B****! So makes me wonder did he really have some kinda feelings for this girl? Oh yeah, there was an incident where she told him she didn’t want to talk to her again, he was so upset he left and sent me and her a picture thru his IM of the bridge and said “ever wonder what the bridge looks like from on top”? And in his status update he wrote “I have nothing to live for, the person I loved the most in this world doesn’t want to talk to me”……….OK so what does that mean? He DID have feelings for her! I know he’s not speaking to her now. We have 4 kids together, been together since I was 18 and I am 35 now. Please don’t leave any nasty comments, I just wanna know if he had feelings for her or was this just an online fantasy for him that I so rudely interrupted. Thanks
He’s not talking to her anymore that I know of.

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Help me find a purse please!?

admin — Thu, 23 Sep 2010 05:04:57 +0000

I need a new purse. Could you guys help me out? I’m a small picky though. Only that it has to be a 1 strap bag. Because 2 straps fall off my shoulders. The price range should be up to $30 or $40 maximum.

Here are some thoughts.

http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?beginIndex=0&viewAllFlag=right&catalogId=32051&storeId=13052&categoryId=133520&parent_category_rn=133517&productId=1179283&langId=-1

http://omg.yahoo.com/photos/the-excellent-girl/2882#id=3

http://cdn.buzznet.com/media/jj1/2008/04/miley-comment/miley-cyrus-no-comment-vanity-honest-04.jpg (i like this one)

http://i44.tinypic.com/2jc68eb.jpg

http://i44.tinypic.com/16bleyv.jpg ( i know this one is from Fossil )
http://i40.tinypic.com/2zh2nq0.jpg ( This one was in the beginning of an MTV’s The Hills episode…There’s not much more I can see from this bag.)

So I reckon you guys get the thought of what I like..The crossbody/messenger purses.

Help me out please and thank you!

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I used to be friends with this girl, does she like me?

admin — Wed, 22 Sep 2010 19:06:56 +0000

I know this girl, I reckon I like her. We used to be friends but I kind of pissed her off. I never got the chance to tell her how I feel. I have dreams about her every night and I reckon about her all day long. Recently, I tried to messege her on an instant messenger and she just ignored me. But I’m positive that she used to like me. Is she just shy? Am I just a creepy d-bag?
the last thing i want to do is to become a stalker or a cyber stalker, what would be the best method of telling her?
It will be impossible to go on, this girl is one and a hundred-trillion

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