Girlfriend trouble! i need advice asap?
(first off me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years) and well, long tale “small”: some d-bag was comforting my girlfriend when we got into a tiny small argument one day (i know this because my girlfriend left her facebook on my computer and her convo with this kid was still saved on the instant messenger from the night before) and she was telling him how she didnt know if she wanted to be in a relationship anymore and they were BOTH talking shiit about me, especially this kid who ive never met in my life. Then he starts telling her how special she is and how uniquely gorgeous she was and how he “wants to hangout again” and she just ate it up. then they chose to text about it so thats all i know about this convo. but that’s enough to get anyone riled up…so i sent this small pr1ck a message on FB (lame, i know) but my only form of contact. saying that if he talks to my girlfriend again i was gonna kill him (edited version) and that he shouldnt be hitting on my girlfriend when hes fully aware shes dating me and talking smack about me behind my back. now he’s threatening me and cursing me out and all this jibberish that i dont want to deal with. all i wanted to do was make this kid aware that i knew he was being a d0uche and ruining things between me and my girl. I dont care if i have to fight him, but whats the point? my girlfriend could very well be cheating on me so ide be taking it out on the incorrect person. She has NO thought i know about this chat sesh, but ive questioned her to keep our small fight on the DL since its just between me and her & she claimes she hasnt told anyone when clearly she’s just lieing to my face…she has a terrible history with cheating (6 times on her last BF) and as muuch as she claims shes changed i simply just cant believe it. its soo hard when she’s talking to a new guy every month and i have to play macho man as soon as i find out theyre hitting on her. i dont know what to do at all. my brain hurts now. feel free to comment with your thoughts. thanks.
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Comments
I’m sorry. This really sucks for you. -hug-
First- Stop talking to the jerk. There’s really no point in talking to people like him.
Then- tell your girlfriend everything you know, and how you know she’s been lying to you.
Then, apologize about the fight, and tell her you don’t want to break up, and like her.
well i reckon that i would just confront her, and tell her how you feel. maybe when she realizes how much you care about the relationship she will apologize, but if she gets all mad and defensive, then honestly i probably would end it. I mean im sure that you could find another girl that wont cheat or lie that you would be just as pleased with. a relationship has to be honest for it to work, so i wouldnt stay if she continues lying
My suggestion to you is to just dump your girlfriend. When one of my guy friends found out that his girlfriend was cheating on him he came to me for advice on what he should do, and I told him the same thing I’m telling you now. After he dumped her I could see…he was WAY more pleased without her in his life.
Ok relax and chill… im guessing she hasn’t changed and she is cheating, maybe its time to come up clean and tell her that you know and that you don’t want to be in a relationship with her anymore. But tell it to her face, not on the cell by friend or any of that crap. to the face. let her now that your not going to place up with her crap,, look i don’t know you at all but any guy deserves better than that. go on, break up with her, let her know that you know every thing.
Bring out the scissors and make cuts….
If you constantly have to worry about her cheating and you caught her talking to another guy, its time to let her go. Its not worth fighting if she is just going to talk to other guys
Like is just complicated right? I felt checking your gf fb trail tells me you have lost trust in her. Like is about trust. And when there is no trust, the relationship become unstable. Learn to trust your gf and trust yourself that you can do better than the others. Talk to her, know her and make her feel how you feel. It is vital for you to know what she feels about you. How about talking to her when your mind are more cool?
The question you need to question yourself is, do you still like her?
If your answer is ‘yes’, you should call her out and talk about it. Tell her how you feel, and that you have been hurting and she is somebody special you wanna with. Question her what she feels about yourself and if there is anything she is looking from other guy that you don’t have. Sometimes, girls need a small more attention. Maybe it could be a form of communication letting you know that she is bored and sometimes, we being a guy are not that sensitive and are generally more selfish and forgotten about our gf. Do you spend enough time with her?
If your answer is ‘no’, just talk to her straight and end this relationship. This will help both of you to go on. You, can stop this brain drain and concentrate on other things and she can go on with what she likes.
Live every single moment with happiness. Hope you can go on happily.
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