Thai Girls Dream

Back in the days when I taught English in Bangkok, gorgeous 19 to 21 year ancient Thai girls dominated all of my classes. One of the topics my students loved was “describe your perfect partner”. On the top of the list of attributes that their partner must have is “a load of money”.

Lots of foreigners (falangs) fall in like in Thailand. Newcomers to Thailand should never attempt to find the girl of their dreams until they have become familiar with Thai culture and the ways of the girls. A high percentage of foreigners choose bar girls for their partners. In this article I will discuss sending money to bar girls.

Financial Support

If you really have met the like of your life in Pattaya or another part of Thailand then you will probably question her to stop working in the bar and will feel obliged to give her some financial support while you are slogging away earning more money in your own country. If you don’t feel obliged then she hasn’t done her job.

Reckon Seriously Before Sending Money To Thai Girls

Before you enter into any such agreement with your Thai lady consider this. She has stopped working in the bar but she misses her Thai mates in the bar. If she remains in Pattaya when you return to your country then it will be very hard for her to stop working or even visiting her friends at the bar.You need a proven plot and you can get one at http://www.after-the-rush.com

Thai Girl Sex and Money

She might say she likes you and maybe she does but these girls have a different slant on sex and like. Sex is just a way to make money and if she can make more money on top of the cash that you send her then she is a real winner.

She also gains face with her bar girl sisters and employer. She becomes the one who can sustain a relationship while still working in the bar. This gains her “face”.

There are too many foreigners in Pattaya ready to open their huge stout wallets for the services of a pretty lady. I highly advise you to read “After the Rush” before sending money to your Thai girl in Pattaya Thailand.You will find it here http://www.thaigirls.pattaya-bar-girls.com

The report exposes eight money sending issues you should carefully consider. It will guide you through the vital steps you should take before you send money to a girl in Thailand..

The Loot

If you have chose to send your sweet honey some money here is something to consider before handing over the dosh (money).

You might count up the number of months you’re going to be with out the apple of your eye, say 4 months, and choose to give her a lump sum for the whole 4 month period to save messing around with bank transfers.

That might be a total of 40,000 baht if you are feeling generous and a lot of falangs give more than that. Or it could be less say 30,000 baht.

Why You Should Not Send One Large Sum

Whatever the amount I highly advise you to reckon again. Unless you have tons of spare cash and you don’t give a hoot, don’t give your honey the lump sum unless you are plotting not to see her ever again.

Why?

Because it will cause her pain and it will probably frustrate you. Here is the Scenario

Her Pain

Darling has 40,000 baht cash in hand. She of course must tell her family of her excellent fortune.

It is then guaranteed that someone in the family chain will concoct a better reason for he or she to have that 40,000 baht rather than your deserving sweetheart.

Emotional Blackmail

Your sweetheart will be placed in a compromising situation. I’ve observed the stress of a Thai honey that has been emotionally blackmailed to hand over the loot. She cried and fell into a sad state for two or three days before parting with her pot of money. That’s her pain.

Your Turn Another Hand Out

Now you will have to cough up those lousy bank transfer fees you thought you were avoiding and send her some more loot.

Now will you use your logic mind and send another 40,000 baht or will you place the brakes on and organize your brain. Reckon how you will feel if the loot slips through your honey’s fingers a second time.

Realise this, most Thai bar girls have completed just 6 years of education and do not have money management skills.You must step in and do it for her.

They are bogged down in the monthly. “I’ve got 40Gs I’m OK for this month”. To save frustration and pain send honey the money monthly or even fortnightly.

Send her enough money to cover her living expenses, plus 3000 baht per month for her baby if she has one. A girl living in the province should be able to live comfortably on 7,000 baht per month (plus baby).

That’s 10,000 baht per month. No more than that or you will cause more confusion.

You have to preempt and take control if you don’t have unlimited funds.

Even if you do have unlimited funds it would be advantageous for you to give her some money management advice. Help her to know why foreigners have budgets to manage their spending.

If your Thai lady has just enough to live on for two weeks she might reckon twice about giving her money away.There is a cheap way for you to transfer funds to Thailand. You can investigate that at your bank or take a look at http://sendmoney.yourthaigirls.com

 

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Insight

Ok, so you have all had experience dating or courting western girls at some time or another, perhaps a black babe or an eastern European. Thai girls are different; firstly they don’t speak English very well. Some do to a certain extent but not enough to allow you to have meaningful conversations. That would come later… So what do what have left if you can’t really chat them up? We only have you, your appearance, the way you look, and the sound of your voice. No matter what you reckon you look or sound like to other people, you will certainly appear different to the Thais. Personality is everything isn’t it? But if you can’t convey your personality with wit and wisdom and you are not an animated person, then what can you do? Here lies the answer; try to change! You can change back later (they do!) but during the dating process and courtship it’s up to you to be different from your usual self.

 

The ingredients

1 Personality

1 Semi-reasonably fit body

2 Suits

3 to 4 Pairs of smart casual slacks (long)

7-9 Fashionable shirts (long sleeved)

8 T-shirts

3 Pairs of excellent leather shoes

2 Pairs of smart/sports sneakers

1 Silver or Gold Watch (non-digital)

1 Leather Bree wallet

3 Pairs of small pants

25 pairs of underwear

10 pairs of socks

1 Can of strong deodorant

1 Mens cologne (subtle type)

1 Iron (creased clothes are a no no)

 

You get the general picture with above? The keyword when you are dating is “appearance”. Her first impression of you is the most vital one. If she looks up to the sky after seeing you for the first time, you might as well just walk away.

 

Some Methods to Get the Attention of a Thai Girl

 

Take one personality, and try and mould into a more animated one, practice using your hands a bit more, use gesture and body movement and make sure you look into her eyes when talking to your date. Reckon up witty things to say, ones that a person with small English ability would know and find amusing. And most importantly, don’t appear nervous. Try to be cool, practice your moves at home in front of a mirror or record it on video. Practice things like the “taking your wallet out of your pocket and paying” technique-which involves keeping a cool face when you get the check. Thai girls notice everything!

 

Take the reasonably-fit body and transport it to the fitness club for a 2 week intensive before dating. It works wonders, you’ll feel and look much better.

Now for the clothes, I’ve tried to list all the clothes necessary for nearly any type of occasion, the last thing you want to do is look like a slob. Now Thai girls are very fussy about clothes, appearance and personal hygiene. Use your common sense when it comes to clothes. Browse through men’s magazines to give you some sense of fashion and try to dress accordingly.

 

Don’t dread looking excellent. You may shock the people around you, and you may feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. So if people tease you ignore, ignore, ignore! The new you have emerged! Wear and carry your accessories like wallets and watches even wear some jewelry. Get used to looking excellent, wear the clothes and don’t let the clothes wear you. Thai girls when dating are impressed with this, you’ll look influential, even if you are not. They don’t mind if you are poor so long as you don’t look poor! Thai girls like to show off to their friends, so don’t embarrass them.

 

On the plate

Assuming you’ve:

Showered (this is a daily must!-Thai people take showers 3 or 4 times a day, they can tell if you’ve missed a day).

You’ve used deodorant. (BO can form very quickly even after showering. It is a huge no no for Thai girls-so be aware)

You’ve checked the fashion magazines-and dressed accordingly. (It’s vital to wear completely different clothes each time you meet).

You’ve practiced your moves.

You’ve practiced your chat lines.

 

You’re done, you’re ready to roll. Delight in!

Luring the She – a Guide to Thai Dating and Finding Your Dream Thai Girl is a post from: Girls Messenger Bags